Status Single: The Truth About Being Single Woman in India by Sreemoyee Piu KunduMarriage. It’s the obvious path for every girl in India. It’s supposed to define us, shape us and give meaning to our life. But does it, really? Figures show that nearly 74.1 million women in India are either divorced, separated, widowed or have never been married. And the number is on the rise.
In what promises to be a path-breaking work on female identity, Sreemoyee Piu Kundu, a proud-to-be-single woman herself, spills the beans on what it is like being over 30 and unattached in India, through her own compelling story and the chequered lives and journeys of nearly 3,000 urban single Indian women from all walks of life.
Women, whether single by choice or circumstance, are under scathing societal pressure, invasive scrutiny and pervasive criticism. Be it the difficulty in renting an apartment, being character-assassinated by your gynaecologist, or being slut- shamed as having slept your way to the top, even when you’re successful professionally, a single woman’s life choices are the easiest to dissect.
From one of the most powerful voices in contemporary Indian writing, comes a passionate narrative of grit and gumption, anger and loneliness and the daily struggle of being single in a country where the highest validation of your gender remains marriage and motherhood. Fiercely honest and painfully vulnerable, Status Single is a book that every woman and man—single or otherwise—must read.
The Good, The Bad, The Lonely: The Truth About Being Single When You Wish You Weren’t
When you start pushing the age of 19, everyone seems to question your life decisions. What are you doing with your life? What do you want to be when you grow up? And of course, you get asked the most dreaded question of all time…So, when are you going to get a boyfriend? At this point in life people assume you end up with your high school sweetheart, or you find your soul mate in college.
A friend of mine lost her husband in an accident only a few years after they had been married. I had been through a few break-ups, had lost a close friend and two grandparents, but her loss seemed so much bigger. So much different. The unexpectedness of it. The sudden change of direction. The going from being married to being single within a matter of moments. I spoke with another friend the other day who is forty-something and single.
And the payoff there is that if you do decide you'd like to pair off with someone, you know exactly who you are and what you want. The reality is, And people are staying single longer than ever before; in , the highest median ages ever for a first marriage were reported : 30 years for men and 28 years for women. Here are the benefits of being single that you can start celebrating:. And being single actually increases social connections, according to a study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships.
The going from being married to being single within a matter of moments. I'm learning that being single when you wish you weren't is less.
the game and eminem second chance
One that lasted over 6 months and where you felt loved… as in really loved? - Or all of your exes.
Being single is a state for the fragile heart. It is a time when you watch your friends start to date, get married or have children. You may also find yourself in the dating world but things are not going well. You may also find yourself engaging in scrupulous acts or settling for friends with benefits FWB while thinking that being a FWB, is better than not being in a relationship at all. Your soul becomes tied with that of your friend and you may lose your real identity in the process. You will feel all alone and sometimes get teary-eyed.